sensuality
"We all crave physical touch, it's part of the human condition."

Consider this for a moment before reading on, as this is the centre point of what I try to achieve with this endeavour!

I have found, though, that many people seem to confuse sensuality with sexuality, and are having trouble separating one from the other. Of course: it's brilliant when the two of them come together! However, it is perfectly possible to experience each without the other. I'm sure - like me - you have had hook-ups that ended up in pure sex, devoid of sensuality. Or you may have had a perfect cuddle session with someone without the first thought of sex.

As I said: it's possible to separate them, and most of us are able to do so unintentionally. MenSensual is about learning to approach sensuality consciously without considering the next steps that lead to sex. Don't get me wrong, though: I'm certainly not discouraging sex, far be it from me... this is about going about experiencing sensuality without it being a stepping stone for more.
Some of you may have come to this site looking for my previous offerings as a sensuality coach, tantra workshops or private sessions. I have taken a step back from such offers for the time being, but if you are interested you can always drop me a message on social media as listed at the bottom of this page.

about me
My name is Tilo and I'm based in Brighton (UK). I have five years of experience with tantra and have successfully passed Tantra4GayMen's three-year course as a gay tantra practitioner.

My practice focuses mainly on neo-tantra and Buddhist meditation practice, and I am heavily influenced by Osho, Tantra4GayMen’s Jason and Ingo Tantra, and Barbara Carrellas. My teaching activities focus on partner work, more specifically the enhancement of mutual understanding and connection.
Like so many of us, I've come in contact with tantra in a pretty roundabout way. My life has not been very spiritual in the past, it never really was of much importance to me, until something happened...

thoughts
Nobody thinks of themselves as wise, I guess. A lot can be said about life, our perceived interpretation of the world around us, and our experience here and elsewhere. And by listening we learn a thing or two about such things, and maybe bring us to consider these thoughts more deeply. That is just what reading my blog is meant to be doing for you.
Besides the blog, I publish further thoughts, advice, exercises or challenges you can try for yourself on my YouTube channel, now and then.

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