Being active is not limited to just touching. Being the active partner can have a lot of different connotations, including penetration, but there is a wide gap between gently stroking someone’s earlobes and full anal penetration, of course, and these couple of blogs are meant to explore that space. Let’s face it, most of us are stuck in a rut when it comes to experiencing sensuality and it often serves just one purpose: getting to a point of having full penetrative sex. I imagine that a bit of foreplay involving touch, kissing and maybe (rushed) undressing each other is the entrée, followed quickly by dessert. What happened to anything in between, drinks, the main dish, palate cleansers, sparkling conversation? I would suggest that there are ways to enjoy each other that are nearly, but not quite penetration. I’m not saying you shouldn’t go there at all, but maybe you’ll find a way to explore that ‘main course’ before skipping it. I have mentioned cock massage in the past and can only repeat that there are simple techniques that can drive your partner out of his mind, if done correctly. This sensitivity increase is driven by sexual energy that is excited through techniques, and this is one easy way to make it happen. This may be one of the reasons why we enjoy a good wank so much. I’m just saying. Cock massage is NOT wanking, though. For one thing is a slower process, it involves a good bit of lube to allow for smooth movements (just as you would expect from a back massage). Cock massage is about sensation and expectation. You may tug in different directions, push between two hands, squeeze the head, pull the scrotum, or just generally move hands around the area. If the cock gets hard – and believe me: it doesn’t always as excitement may show in different ways – you could keep teasing by massaging to find an edge where you partner becomes restless… and then move off and do something harmless somewhere else. You know what I mean! An interesting addition to massaging the cock is to find the hard root of your partner’s cock and push against it: if you do that just right you may see an intense reaction from your receiver as you are activating a lot of nerve cells right under the skin… Step away from the expectation of a quick wank
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