Being active is not limited to just touching. Being the active partner can have a lot of different connotations, including penetration, but there is a wide gap between gently stroking someone’s earlobes and full anal penetration, of course, and these couple of blogs are meant to explore that space. We often hear about the mysterious prostate massage, so it has to be part of this short series on being active. Most men associate the mention of the prostate with a rectal exam, but there is much more to it than that: the prostate is actually the thing that convulses when you have an ejaculation, it’s where semen and seminal fluid come together and are being pumped out. That gives you a bit of an indication where exactly you’ll find this thing. In fact, I have mentioned the prostate before in the cock massage blog, without naming it properly: it sits at the root of your cock, that rock hard bit that makes you feel all tingly when you press it the right way. In fact, what you are doing there is an external prostate massage. You’ll have a hard time finding it when you are not aroused, but boy, it can swing quite a punch when it’s ready. On the outside, you can find the prostate somewhere between the anus and the scrotum, but the main access happens through the anus itself – and that is exactly what happens in a prostate exam. But we are not here to examine the prostate, we want to make it feel good! Once you are in full internal anal massage mode, you may want to have your finger in a position to be able to bend it towards the belly of your receiver and gently explore that area to find a slightly harder part of the internal wall. Be gentle! The prostate does not like to be poked, but repetitive gentle strokes can do wonders. Your receiver now may feel like he has to pee, or he wants to jump out of his skin from the sheer intensity of the sensation. That means you have found it! At this point, you may have to make sure your receiver doesn’t move too much as your finger may poke unexpected places and become painful. As always, it’s up to you to keep an eye on his reactions and act accordingly: go harder or hold back a little, whatever your partner communicates. Of course, you can combine the internal massage with an external stimulation of the root of his cock, if you want to make him go totally wild! Either way, never forget that you are ‘giving’, but if you have a true connection you’ll receive so much from him that you’ll completely forget that you are giving right now. … and next time, switch roles!
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