Empathy is a very important element that keeps society together, it forms the glue that makes us realise that we are not alone, that there is a connection with others in general terms. The common denominator here seems to be ‘community’ and ‘collaboration’ rather than a more personal interaction with one or several people. ‘Being love’ in this context is selfless, altruistic and outward.
And then there is the other kind of ‘being love’, the kind that is more specific, often directed at one person in a very particular way that only means ‘being love’ for them but not for anyone else. This could take the shape of small acts of kindness to the benefit of that person, or maybe being intentionally present for them when you sense they need you. That love may be more generalised, too: offering your time or help to whoever needs it – irrespective of the fact that nobody might take the offer. It may just not be necessary at that time, but ‘being love’ is expressed in the sheer act of offering. No taking needed to seal the deal. ‘Being love’ could be expressed quite easily by giving each person you encounter your most brilliant smile when they pass you in the street, or waving out of the bus while you pass them by, or small compliments on something they do that strikes you as extraordinary. Both ways of ‘being love’ can be described in a situation where you give a gift to someone. You can spend a lot of time and thought on finding the perfect gift for a loved one, and that involves a very specific intention: pleasing that person to the best of your abilities. Or you spend some time finding an appropriate gift because you feel a certain level of obligation to give one. That is not to say that the second gift is any less appreciated, but it involves a certain lack of intentionality. Whatever you do in the name of love, make sure you have good intentions and it will be all the more meaningful.
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