Often, ‘making connections’ is used in a very antiseptic way, especially when it comes to business networking, or any kind of practical arrangement where someone would keep tabs on another person for future personal gain or because these other people are perceived as useful in some way. On a deeper level, making a connection is about a meeting of body, mind and spirit. And that goes far beyond that business-like meaning of ‘connections’. So what IS that deeper connection and how can you create it? When it comes to sensuality, connection is key. Connection with another being comes from conscious engagement with them. That engagement could take diverse forms: touch is always a good one, and properly looking at each other into the eyes beats pretty much everything. But we are getting ahead of ourselves here: we have to be aware that connection works in two directions, and both parties have to want that deeper connection to develop! In order to form a connection, you will need to let down your guard, be open to what the other has to offer, or to offer something of your own. And that wall you have to let down is different to everyone. One person may have no problem looking into someone else’s eyes for minutes on end, but be unable to even hold their hand. Another person is open to all level of sensual touch, but cannot accept the sense of warmth that comes from someone else’s breath. We are all different, and part of making a connection is figuring out what works and what doesn’t at this stage. Connections can develop quickly, and you may be surprised what you are ready to accept from the right person. open your mind to any and all possibilities
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