Not too long ago, I was sitting on a bus, travelling through town, when I heard a snippet of a conversation somewhere behind me. Two women were talking to each other and one of them said: “I’m learning lessons I wasn’t even aware I could learn.” That thought intrigued me to a point where it stuck with me until such time that I could pull out a notepad and write it down. What is it about this thought that caught my attention? I believe that conscious sensuality has a lot to do with becoming aware that there are things you can (and should) do when you engage with your partner, most of which you never knew you could even seek out. It’s similar to the notion that “the more you learn the more you realise the less you know”. Let’s face it: engaging with someone on any level – be it in a business or social setting or in the bedroom – often makes us slip into automatic behaviour. That is not a bad thing in itself, but this mode of conduct leaves us blind to explore different options. Business or social settings don’t have to remain impersonal, and there is nothing more devastating to your intimate relations than playing it by the book all the time. A bit of adventure and exploring new sensual opportunities might be in order more often than not… Tantra offers ways to not just be guided by a teacher to explore options you have never thought about, but once you get the hang of the basics, your own mind will eventually take you to places you never knew you had inside of you. In some cases, you’ll end up with completely unique insights, notions you’ll have a hard time explaining to anybody else. I believe we all can find lessons we never knew you could learn. If tantra can help you learn them, power to you! stay open for what's coming to you
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