We’ve all experienced an orgasm. That sensation of exhilaration and subsequent release of pent-up pressure, followed in most cases by absolute relaxation. For most guys this is something that is closely connected with an ejaculation, but that does not HAVE to be the case. It’s perfectly possible to have an ejaculation without physical signs of arousal, so why is it such a stretch of the imagination that you could have an orgasm without ejaculation? As with many things tantric, it makes sense to separate things out into their constituent parts, experience them on their own and then bring them back together with a better understanding of the parts that make up the sexual experience. Edging is one of those experiences that can lead to an orgasm, even multiple orgasms, without ever ejaculating – but what really happens is an accumulation of sexual energy in your body and makes it do things you cannot quite understand: you may be shuddering all over, feel the unstoppable urge to moan of shout uncontrollably, convulse or go into a quiet place of your own. It’s a very personal process and what constitutes an orgasm can seem very different. That build-up of energy is what makes the orgasm happen, not the physical stimulation or the images you conjure up in your mind, nor necessarily the presence of another person (although that will help). So in a way, you have already encountered that sexual energy in your person and it has taken the form of an ejaculation for you. Being a tantric practitioner does not mean you’ll never ejaculate again, or course. What it means is that you have a choice: release that energy you have conjured up or hold it back and shift it within yourself to a place where it’s needed. You can also make it circulate and create the most wonderful serial orgasms you can imagine! always make sure to keep a base energy level alive
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